Is Being Boring That Bad?

Nine times out of ten, I would rather be in my pyjamas with a tub of ice cream and crappy Netflix TV than go out. I also like having a routine, eating healthy (most of the time!) and I hate leaving things until last minute.

Obviously, this means I am really boring and have a boring life, and gives people the right to tell me how dull I am when I choose a diet coke over a vodka. And to look at me like I’m stupid when I choose some fruit over a chocolate bar. It’s so tragic that I’m not out every night getting off my tits and embarrassing myself. Everyone must intervene and try and make me more outgoing.

But the thing is, I used to go out three or four times a week. And eat tonnes of chocolate rather than eating healthy, and while I loved going out and enjoyed eating (hell I still love eating), I was overweight and unhappy with the way I looked, I felt heavy and rubbish all the time, and I just slowly started to stop enjoying the #crazy lifestyle.

So I stopped drinking, apart from times when I really fancied a cocktail or soco, and I started going to the gym and turning down takeaways for home cooking. I lost weight, became loads happier with myself and found out I really enjoy the chilled out lifestyle. So why is me being ‘boring’ so looked down by on others?

To tell you the truth, it really pisses me off when people judge me because sometimes I’d rather stay in so I can go to the gym in the morning, rather than spend the next day feeling like crap. And I absolutely hate it when people judge me for trying to eat healthy, and then go on some stupid crash diet themselves or complain how fat they are. I still enjoy a drink or two when I fancy it, especially if it’s a nice sunny day, and I’ll let myself have the odd takeaway and chocolate if I fancy it. So why are you so upset for me?

Actually, when I first started to stop loving getting drunk, I felt like there was something wrong with me. And I’d force myself to drink when everyone else did, even if I didn’t fancy it. But eventually, I realised it would be best if I listened to my body and did what I want.

If I am happy being boring, you have absolutely no right to tell me how I should live my life. I don’t judge you for giving yourself liver failure and probably STIs, so piss off and leave me to my PJs and Disney films. Thank you VERY MUCH.

What are your opinions? I really don’t mind how people want to spend their life, unless it is spent judging me! Do you feel people look down on you or how you live?

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